The fact is, if you are an involved father, one who does not believe that a father’s parenting role involves only ‘paying the bills’…in other words, if you are a father who is physically therefor your children for more than 1.5 hours a day, then the Court is not going to give sole custody to your female ex in the event of a divorce.  The Court is loathe to change things for the children anymore than your divorce already has, and if you are more than a paycheque, you will stay more than a paycheque.

If, however, you have decided to live a stereotype, where the woman raises the children and the man makes the money, then you reap what you sow.  You cannot suddenly, upon divorce, realise the error of your ways and demand that you now be given a chance to be the father you weren’t. 

So choose now, men.  Choose before you have children.  Are you going to be a father, or are you going to cry and whine after your divorce about how feminists ruined it all for you?

Because feminists fucking want you to man up* now. 

(*i.e. be an equal parent)